Pacifire-FREE

What's up everyone?!? So this will be such a quick post...but if you have been following my blog since the beginning then you will know that I was trying to get my daughter off of her pacifier for the LONGEST time ever! I talk about it like its a drug or something, lol. But I mentioned on my Facebook how her paci was like what alcohol or shopping is to someone that is stressed. It really soothed her. I mean, she was sucking her fingers in the womb and she came out sucking on her tiny fingers! Needles to say, I am BEYOND thrilled for my baby girl. She is FINALLY paci-free for 2 weeks now! Whoo hoo =) So your probably wondering what we did (her father and I)? Well it was kind of by accident...meaning that every night she would loose her paci in the middle of the night and she would cry so LOUD that one of us would have to get up and search for it. That was soooo annoying. Messing with my sleep is a BIG no no ;) SO anyways, she lost her paci one day and kind of forgot about it until the night-time...she literally had a melt down but we still had no idea where her paci was (she has a habit of hiding her belongings). So for about a couple of days still no sight of her paci, she would be fine until it was bed time. She had about 3 days of crying in the middle of the night then she would put herself back to sleep. After her father and I noticed how she was able to soothe herself with out her paci, we both decided to NOT give her paci back to her IF we ever found it. Fast forward, it now has been almost 2 weeks and no paci =) I ended up finding it in one of my old purses that she likes to walk around in! I didn't throw it away but I put it in a high place where she could NEVER see it. She asked me the other day however when I picked her up form her preschool about where her paci is, and so I told her a little fib :/ (Its okay to lie in situations like this, right?...Lol) I told her that the "paci-fairy" came and took her paci while she was sleeping. She said "why?" and I said, "because the paci-fairy said that if you want to be a big girl, you can't have it anymore!" She was fine for like a minute, then she said "But Mommy, you were supposed to tell the fairy that it's mine and she is not supposed to steal" Awwww, I felt so bad but she had me cracking up! She is doing so well with out it and I could not be happier! If any of you are going through this, just be patient. Don't listen to what other people have to say when it comes to your child. Point blank. No one knows your child and their attachments better than YOU. So just be patient and keep trying. I say the best thing to do is just do a cold-turkey on the pacifier, and let them cry it out for a couple of nights. Some parents refuse to let their children cry for anything, so I am just speaking for myself and what worked for me. There are other tactics that you could try as well, such as throwing a party for your child to get rid of the paci, or mail it to a grand-parent or close family friend, or "pass" it down to a baby relative or baby brother/sister! I hope someone reads this and finds it helpful! Just remember, hang in there!! Truly Yours, Court...xoxo

My 3 year old sings "Count on Me" by Whitney Houston

Hey everyone! So the other day I recorded my 3 year old singing the entire song "Count on Me" from Whitney Houston. Thought this was too cute, so I had to record her and upload it and share with my viewers!


Please, PLEASE keep coming back to my blog for reviews and such and spread the word of my blog =) I know I have been MIS, but this sickness was kicking my butt majorly. Now I am back!! Hugs and kisses to everyone in the US and world wide who come on regularly to check out my blog!!


I appreciate it, I do. 


Xoxoxo,


Court

EXPRESS Finish Nail Color Love

Hey everyone =) Hugs and kisses!! So, I have been MIA for a minute because I have been feeling really sick for the last 2 weeks...its a long story. But when I find more time, I will def give you all a update about whats been going on with me! So my 27th birthday was March 9th! Whoo hoo...still don't know if I am excited about getting older or what? Still freaks me out. Lol. I did some shopping on the 8th and I stumbled into Rite Aide and came across 2 colors that I have been wearing over and over again! I have had so many people ask me what color and brand, so I thought I would just share with you all ;) Okay, so FIRST up...is "Love me Lavender" this is a LIMITED edition. I think it was from the 2010 or 2011 line. This is the color with 2 coats. Cute, right?

Now, since this IS a limited edition, I haven't been able to find anything else about this color. BUT, I have found some amazing colors that are VERY similar from this brand. =) 1. ESSIE "Neo Whimsical" Mixture of rose and plum

2. OPI's "Lucky Lucky Lavender"

These 2 colors are equally great to Maybelline's "Love me Lavender" The next color is also my Maybelline. It's their "Peachy Petal", this might have been a limited edition as well from their 2010-2011 collection! Here is the color;

I haven't really worn this color before, I don't know another color that might match this shade. If any of you have a color similar to this one that isn't by Maybelline, please make sure you comment below for other viewers that might be interested! Okay, that's it for now! Until next time, be safe and God bless, xoxoxo Courtney

My BEST friend, Flexi-Rods

Hey everyone! Wanted to share this video that I uploaded to my Facebook Page :: Court's World :: It's a quick video about Flexi-Rods. Why and how I use them...please bare with me as I am very amateur at making videos! Hope you guys enjoy it! Xoxo

February Favorites and UPDATE

It's been awhile since I posted last. You know how life is sometimes, twists and turns...and here I am :) I will try to post every week or every other week!

A lot hasn't changed since I last did my favorites of the month. But, I have found 2 new products that I live by now, and one product that I bought and ummmm, wish I could get my money back!

Let me first start off by saying Rest In Peace Whitney Houston. We lost another true talent before their time. Sad. I grew up listening to her voice, pretending to hit her high notes...singing into a brush. Her music will live on though. I am happy to say CONGRATS to singer, Adele! Who won BIG at the 2012 Grammy's this year! She is so talented. I have yet to find a artist who sounds just like their records while performing live. She is amazing.

Okay, with that said...let's start, shall we?

So the 2 products that I swear by, I will start with first :)

1. Maybelline New York Eye Studio Gel Eyeliner

I absolutely LOVE this product. I can't say enough about this. It comes with a applicator brush. I have worn this on several occasions and the line is perfection. It doesn't look messy like most other liquid or gel eye liners do. It glides on so easily and it's so easy to use. You don't need a lot of product on the small brush applicator either! This is one make up product that I will keep going back to spend roughly $9 on. The main thing, it lasts all day long! ;)

2. Cover Girl Refined Rose Instant Cheekbones Blush (#230)

I have been searching for the RIGHT blush forever. I never find the right on, its always too light or too dark! I have finally found one that I am personally content with! I love this duo. It comes with 3 different colors. A darker shade for contouring, a medium shade that is for your blush (apples of cheek), and a lighter shade that is meant for high lighting. If you don't know how to contour, visit You Tube, they always have videos on "How To's". I am not an expert on this, so I wont even begin to explain how to do this. But I have learned a little by watching others do it. This blush is perfect for someone who is tan or with olive skin tones!

NOW, its time for the product I wish I NEVER bought! If any of you have bought this and it works for you, then great. This is just a product that doesn't work for myself!

1. L'Oreal Paris Voluminous Eyeliner Mistake-Proof Marker

To start off, I was looking for a eye liner product that had a easy application process to it and a product that wouldn't rub off or smudge during the day. I saw this product in Target one day and figured that I would stray away from Maybelline (my go-to makeup drug store products) and try something new. Well you live and you learn! I tried this out and you would think that it would be a good product because of the marker end to it, but I felt that it was worse. If you don't hold the marker at a certain angle then the line is all over the place! If you don't have a steady hand, then this def is not for you! I did not like how the product went on, and you had to go over it a few times for the color to get definition. It also smudged during the day, and I have a very oily face. So this was not a good combination. This would be great for someone with out a shaky hand or someone who doesn't have oily skin like me :)

**Remember, all these products that I LOVE or HATE is only a reflection of myself. I encourage you to go out and try whatever it is that your heart desires!!**

Friendly Reminder ;)

The holidays have come and passed. I can't believe that it's another year! I welcome 2012 with open arms. I hope that all of my readers had a wonderful holiday and a safe New Years.

This year took its toll on me. I went on a roller coaster ride of emotions. A few that I am willing to share; I lost my precious Aunt Pearlie from my father's side on December 28th, 2011. The following day, my 3 year old daughter underwent surgery to fix her umbilical cord hernia. That was on December 29th. Then, my sister came to visit me for New Years...that was a high light for me! If you read my postings from earlier about my adoption story, you might have a clue as to why this was a special event for me!

With all said and done...I pulled through it made it!

I just want to remind everyone that the "holiday spirit" of giving back to those in need should happen not only during the holidays, but every day...or when you can! Many of you might start spring cleaning, and find that you have unused products in your home that aren't needed, donate them :) Visit a children's cancer hospital (bring a gift). Volunteer at a local homeless shelter. Adopt a pet...there are many things that you can do in your every day life to help give back. You don't need to be a millionaire in order to help those in need. Trust me, I am by far the richest person!!

I felt that I needed to emphasize the importance of giving back on a regular day/week, not just during the holidays!

After I went through so much during December, I realized how blessed I am to be alive and that my kids are healthy. After my daughter underwent her surgery, I just had this overwhelming feeling of gratitude for all that I have. I started to feel guilty...but I thought of different ways to help give back. Its fairly easy :)

My hope for everyone for 2012, is to stay on a positive track. Keep positive thoughts and friends close by. Respect yourself and others and give back to your community :)

Oh, and remember...keep healthy! Stay up to date with your doctors!!

10 Rules to Live By

These are a few rules that I swear by, to help me get through this crazy/beautiful thing called LIFE (they are in random order). If you can APPLY at least 1-4 of these rules to your every day life, then living life may become easier! If I don't swear by these, I am all out of order..kind of like a broken machine ;)

Okay, so lets start!

1.

You are in control of your own happiness

(This means that. no one can control you being happy. Only you can. Sure, some of you may have been dealt shitty cards in life, but even with the shittiest cards you can make order and some sense out of it. The only person that can make yourself happy is YOURSELF. No one is living your life, but you. So make it worth it)

2.

Treat People How you Would Want to Be Treated

(Treat everyone with the same kindness that you would expect to be treated. Generous, sincere, loyal, and trusting are all good traits of RESPECTING another person)

3.

Karma

(Like Lil Wayne says "Karma can be a bi**%, depending how you dress her". What goes around, comes around. Therefore...what YOU put out in this world, you receive. If you are not a good friend, most likely you will find yourself friendless. You get the idea.

4.

Do What Makes you Happy

(Meaning, find what it is in life that truly you feel that you love. My mom once told me, that having all the money in the world is not worth it, if you don't have a burning desire to wake up every morning and be excited about doing it. If you feel like this, maybe some more self -discovery can help lead you in the right path. You have ONE life to live, and you don't want to be miserable all for a dollar and some change!)

5.

Always Forgive but Never Forget

(I am sure that many of you have been done wrong by someone in your life. I know I have. But to dwell on that and the person who caused you stress and harm is not worth it. That can actually bring you down. Don't focus on revenge. The best thing to do, is in your heart is to forgive that person so that you can move on with your life. Don't let one person take away your happiness over something that was probably petty anyways. Move on, forgive, but NEVER forget what that person did, so that way it doesn't make you look like a fool in the end to get burnt twice!!)

6.

Always Be Accountable for Your Actions

(If you know you messed up, don't sit back and let others take the blame. Fess up for your wrong doings and don't make the same mistake twice)

7.

Get Up, Get Dressed, and Show Up

(This reads what it means. Don't waste your precious time. Get up every day, get dressed and show up to life. Life is ticking away, day by day! Make the most out of it before God calls you home)

8.

Let Go and Let YOUR God

(Many of us want to fix something that is beyond our control. I will be the first to admit that. I tend to beat myself up over things that are way out of my hands. Maybe your stressed at work, having a situation with a partner or friend...instead of beating yourself up over it, let YOUR God take care of it. I say "your God" because not all of us believe in ONE. Put your heart and mind at ease and know that your God has your back)

9.

It's Okay to Cry

(Holding back how you feel is not good. That can be stressful. And stress is not good for your heart. Whether you cry alone or in front of someone, its okay! It really is. Its way healthier to have a snob fest then let it reach a boiling point where it becomes anger instead of tears)

10.

Don't Judge a Book by Its Cover

(This is kind of broad. But it's the same thing as "Don't judge someone until you have walked a mile in their shoe". People are human with emotions. People have bad and good days. Days filled with laughter and joy and some are filled with pain and tears. You might meet someone from what others have told you, or met them one time and maybe they were having a bad day. Until you know someone and can start picking their brains, you don't have the right to belittle someone form here-say. That breaks rule #2)